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You may know him as Quincy from Tyler Perry’s hit series, “Have & Have Nots.” But what you may not know about him is that he has overcome some of life’s biggest obstacles. Whether you need advice in your love life or you want a man’s point of view on topics, Medina has got you covered!

In our NEW series, #AskMedina, he will answer any questions you may have about self-love and relationships in today’s world.

Sheen Magazine is so excited to announce that Medina will be presenting at our 2018 Kimmie Awards! You don’t want to miss this!

I have a hard time opening up to my significant other, what are some ways I can start doing so?

Your issue isn’t opening up. Your issue is fear and vulnerability. Men like women that are vulnerable. Some women see vulnerability as a weakness. Being vulnerable doesn’t mean being a door mat. You have to switch your perspective. In life, it’s always going to be you vs you, not what others think or how others feel about you. I’m here to tell you, you have value. You are like gold. When you understand that gold never tarnishes under any heat or pressure, you will then overcome your fear to communicate your feelings. Keep shining!

I love my new boyfriend but he hasn’t introduced me to any of his friends. Is this a red flag?

No, this is not necessarily a red flag. Men don’t share things the way women do. They invest!

Read Mathew 13:44

“The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field.”

A woman is heaven for a man. When a man falls in love it takes time. Just because it isn’t raining right now does not mean the crops won’t grow. Be patient, flowers take time to bloom. Everyone wants a dozen roses but very few are willing to go through the season for changes. Do not panic. This is just a season you are going through.

Men will always give graphic details about jump offs and one night stands, but they will never give any details to their boys when they really love someone. Sometimes it takes men a little longer to trust. It could actually be a good thing. In movies, they always hide or bury the treasure, so thieves don’t get it. Maybe you are a priceless treasure and he wants to be sure nothing messes it up. Switch your perspective. Know that you have value! The validation from others is unnecessary. Be patient with him. Trust the process, do not try to control the process. If it’s not taken away from your value, then stay the course!

 

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