Dear Jream,
Baby Jream, you changed everything before you even got here! I promise to always have your back and show you what a strong woman looks like. This world can be tough, but I’ll love you no matter what path you choose. I’m not perfect at this mom thing, but everything I do is for you now. The world is YOURS – dream big and know your mama’s always your biggest fan!
Love Mom (Dream Doll)
Becoming a new mother is one of the world’s greatest adventures and journeys. It’s one of the most rewarding feelings that a woman could ever experience. Of course, it has its ups and downs, but for any new mother, those first feelings of excitement mixed with anticipation can be overwhelming all at once. For actress and artist Dream Doll, she always had dreams of becoming a mother and when she found out she was pregnant, she got the shock of a lifetime.
“I was so surprised! I always wanted to be a mom but wasn’t expecting it right then. I was scared but excited at the same time. Through all the chaos in my life, my heart knew this was exactly what was meant to happen. I always wanted to be a mother, and the joy is even bigger than I imagined. But let me keep it real those sleepless nights are REAL! I’ve learned I’m more patient and protective than I knew possible. Now I truly get what my own mother went through. Mothers are superheroes. ”
Everything that the Bronx native could have ever wanted all wrapped up in a bundle of joy born on March 2025. With a head full of hair and features like her mom’s, Dream Doll documented her pregnancy journey for her fans and the world to watch. She did cute little shoots featuring her collaboration campaign with Fashion Nova. The world watched as she embraced her journey with a smile. When Jream arrived, it was pure love at first sight, Dream says,
“When I first saw her, I felt a love I never felt before. All the pain just vanished when they put her on my chest. You hear about this love but until you feel it? Whole different level. Seeing myself in her features hit different, that’s MY baby, I MADE her!”
This love that she felt was also a love that had been passed down from generation to generation. Being the oldest of five, Dream Doll knew that the best advice that she would receive would come from her own mother. Mothers hold a voice of wisdom and resilience as they have already traveled down that road. When asked what advice her mother shared, she said,
“My mom told me to take it day by day, trust your instincts, and don’t try to be perfect. Call your support system when you need help. She stressed taking care of myself too, which is easy to forget. And she reminded me time flies, so enjoy every moment even when you’re exhausted. My mom’s been showing me the ropes while letting me find my own way. “
Being birthed by a woman of strength and carrying the bloodline is a major responsibility that only women can share. Beating every odd and having to stand tall is the testimony of every mother. Through tears and triumph, Dream Doll has been able to fulfill one of her life’s dreams, becoming a mother. However, living your life out loud in the public eye can make one become more private and guarded to protect what’s there,
“Becoming a mother has definitely changed me when it comes to what I share with the world. The world can be cruel to children, and I refuse to allow my child to become a victim of cyberbullying and judgment. I plan to keep her shielded from this world’s wickedness and weirdness. Originally I thought that I couldn’t wait to show her off and let the world see her, but then when I saw her face I said no. I have to protect you, I have to guard you. It’s a shame that you have to be like this but the internet will have people thinking that they can do and say anything but this is my child, and I cannot let that happen.”
Just like in life, motherhood is one of those things that only experience, and life lessons can teach you. While the motherhood journey for everyone looks different, one thing is for sure that no amount of advice in the world can fully prepare you for this journey ahead, she says.,
“Nobody shares with you the downside of motherhood. Sometimes I feel lost, and I ask questions about if I’m doing this right, and then there are times when I sit and just look at her face and become thankful. Motherhood will change your entire life, whether you are ready or not. You may think you have it all planned out and you have all the clothing, bibs and diapers but what she really needs is love. She needs to know that I have her and that she is protected. She needs to know that everything is ok, even if I feel overwhelmed. And I’m honest, even though she just got here, sometimes I get overwhelmed and then I remember my mother and my grandmother. They did it. They made this look so easy. Even with all the questions that I have asked, I learned that there are things that nobody can teach you. You can only learn it from experience. I’m becoming my best life experience, and my daughter will always have the best.”
As Dream Doll continues her lifelong path of motherhood, she will be filled with much advice and life lessons to pass down to her daughter. However, she has a few pieces of advice now to share,
“Advice I’d give my daughter would be to never give up on your dreams no matter what. Believe in yourself when nobody else does. And don’t fear mistakes or what others think some of my biggest L’s became my greatest lessons. One more bonus piece of advice: know your worth and don’t let anybody make you forget it!” she says.
With one of the world’s favorite holidays right around the corner, Dream Doll is gearing up to celebrate it as her first Mother’s Day, on what she looks forward to the most, she says,
I’m so excited! I’m looking forward to being surrounded by love and showing appreciation to my daughter’s village who’s been holding me down. I’m excited to start some traditions me and Jream can keep every year.”
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