A few months ago you and your boo was just having a ball, cozier than two dogs in heat. However, today he is a faded memory. You’ve spent so many sleepless nights, turning over thoughts in your mind trying to figure out where it all went wrong? He made so many excuses as to why he hasn’t been around I’ve been working late, the famous it’s not you it’s me, and I’m not ready for a relationship.  Sis, you’ve suffered enough let’s get over the anger and realize he has done a disappearing act on you because he was a coward. I know it will be difficult but let’s tap into the real reason why guys leave good girls. Here are some possible crazy reasons guys run for the hills from the good girls.

Fixated on worst case scenario-Thinking about all of the things, that could go wrong instead of letting things flow and not bailing.

Not finished playing the field– Casanova still isn’t ready to settle down still wants to play.

In like not in Love– Some men need to feel you are the one they can’t let get away.

Too into you- Yes I said it, guys are protective over their feelings and scared of being hurt. So, if that means pulling the plug first that’s what they will do.

He’s reluctant to make plans- If he hems and haws about committing to anything even if it’s in the semi-near future he’s thinking about making a break for it.

He’s meaner- The passive-aggressive breakup is a guy standby. Some men intentionally turn into a-holes to make sure you break up with them.

He’s not into sexHe doesn’t want to feel connected to you — or he’s getting his needs filled somewhere else.

Bottom line women get serious when they meet the right man. Men get serious with whomever they happen to be dating when they’re finally ready to settle down. That means after every other aspect of their life is in order — whether it’s finishing grad school, finally pulling down a good-size paycheck, owning a car outright, owning a home/business — or when their friends start dropping like flies getting married themselves. So, sis don’t change your good girl ways there is someone right in the wings waiting!


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